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Hard-Work Holiness

August 4, 2009 Jeremiah Leave a comment

Have you ever tried to do this? I have. I used to sweat busting butt to try and measure up to what I understood a Christian was supposed to be like. The result was a constant oscillation between good streaks and big dips into sin, with the occasional crash thrown in to shake things up.

The metaphor we use for our holiness is fruits. Working hard at bearing fruit is a pretty silly idea. Did you ever see an orange tree sweat?

So if we aren’t supposed to work hard, what do we do? Isaiah’s got a nice protip (Isaiah 30:15):

In repentence and rest is your salvation,
In quietness  and trust is your strength

Resting and being quiet is the hardest thing to do sometimes, especially if you’re in a spiritual desert. Remember the number one command: love God. Love doesn’t come by hard work, it comes from exploring and enjoying the other.

I’ve found the more I learn to rest, the less dips I have, and the crashes disappear entirely. I’m never perfect of course, but I just press closer to God. Everything else usually falls into place.

Bursting Wineskins

December 31, 2008 Jeremiah Leave a comment

There’s a very familiar bible verse I recently saw in a new light. This is Jesus talking, from Matthew 9:16-17.

No one sews a piece of unshrunk cloth on an old cloak, for the patch pulls away from the cloak, and a worse tear is made. Neither is new wine put into old wineskins; otherwise, the skins burst, and the wine is spilled, and the skins are destroyed; but new wine is put into fresh wineskins, and so both are preserved.

The unshrunk cloth and new wine are like new Christians, and the cloak and wineskin are like the church. We can especially see a declining church in the damaged cloak. Members of a declining church often see solutions in new (and especially younger) members.

But the reality is, new members will need to grow and flex. They’ll be moving in new directions. A “damaged cloak” church can’t accomodate it, and the existing damage is made worse by yet another conflict.

Rather than try to assimilate new Christians into an old church, raise up missionaries to plant new churches. The old church has experience to offer, but its procedures, habits and patterns will smother new enthusiasm. Let it instead become a parent church fostering and releasing children churches to create new families, who will in turn raise and release their own children churches. Just as a family stays connected through regular correspondance and special gatherings, so churches can do, too.

What the Church Needs

December 30, 2008 Jeremiah Leave a comment

I hear frequently statements that begin “The church needs…” Some of the more common endings are:

  • Young people
  • Young families
  • A particular ministry or program
  • More volunteers
  • More money

There’s only one thing declining churches need: Jesus.

Some might be quick to argue their church has Jesus, or is faithful, or feels the Spirit moving, or whatever. The thing is, the above “needs” betray different priorities. Through many, many conversations I’ve had about what the church needs, Jesus never comes up. He’s just plain not mentioned. His absence is profound.

If you’re in a declining church and struggling with what your church needs, listen for Jesus’ name. Seek him. Ask others about him. Thriving church life is a side-effect of the overflowing abundant life of Christ.

All the church needs is Jesus. The rest of that stuff follows, because everyone else needs Jesus, too. They’ll show up, volunteer and contribute their hearts and souls, but only for Jesus.

The Dwindling Power of the Sermon

December 20, 2008 Jeremiah 1 comment

The more sermons I hear, the less impact each new one has on my life.

Consider going to a motivational seminar and hearing a compelling keynote address. Now consider if you heard a keynote once a week for the rest of your life. They’d have less and less impact the more you heard.

The Body of Christ is meant to be built up through ‘one-anothering’ with spiritual gifts. There’s a wide variety of gifts, and the church is intended to worship through all of them regularly. Sermons are at best two gifts (teaching and prophecy), and at worst a mere human-crafted speech.

Most institutional churches revolve around Sunday morning worship, which in turn revolves around the sermon. It’s okay to keep it, so as not to alienate existing members. Change your focus to intimate small group experiences. Train small group leaders in worship, encouragement, and especially using and discerning spiritual gifts. Each group should feel like a New Testament church, with members ‘one-anothering’ each other weekly in the group, and also regularly throughout life.

With most of your congregation living into their spiritual gifts and experiencing the depths of Christ among each other, leadership will be freed from management to discern Christ’s mission and movement, and truly lead their flocks to God’s kingdom on earth.

How to Evaluate New Ministry Ideas

December 11, 2008 Jeremiah Leave a comment

Most folks in declining churches have at least one or two ideas on how to turn things around. But how do you sort through the ideas to know which are good?

First, I think it’s important to give honest consideration to most any suggestion made by congregants. The reason is, it gives them a sense of empowerment and ownership. They’re more likely to get actively engaged in ministry if they feel like equal partners instead of mere volunteers for someone else’s idea.

So if you’re listening to more suggestions, it’s that much more important to know how to evaluate them. There’s a few simple questions you can ask up-front that’ll sort out the few substantial ones from the armchair ideas. In the case of ideas that don’t pass the test, you can still support the person in carrying out their mission – just not through the church budget, communications vehicles or any other official accomodations.

Does it support our overall congregational mission? You should have a clearly articulated mission, defined by a tangible change in a specific people-group’s lives (if not, get on it!). If the idea will not promote the intended change in the lives of people your church is passionate about reaching with the gospel, don’t do it.

Does it violate any of our values or beliefs? You should have the most important principles and foundational beliefs defined (even if only with metaphor). If the idea compromises any of these, don’t do it.

Did the mission idea form through spiritual habits, a spiritually-growing small group or discernment process? If not, don’t do it. Mission in the church needs to be more than good ideas; it needs to be rooted in prayer, scripture reading, dwelling on the Lord, and other spiritual habits. That can include small group participation, but it must have developed through spiritual growth in the group.

How will the mission’s effectiveness be evaluated? You must have two measurable criteria to evaluate the mission, and a reasonable timeframe to evaluate within. If these can’t be determined (with help, of course), don’t do it. This can be hard to come up with, especially if you’re trying to spiritually feed people somehow. If you can’t come up with easy-to-measure numbers, try counting testamonies (stories, times people cried, number of newcomers gained by word-of-mouth…).

Who will carry it out? If only one person will lead the mission, don’t do it. No mission should be undertaken by less than two people, for a lot of reasons (mutual support, carrying on if one drops out, accountability…). If the mission team is reduced to one person, that person must find an apprentice to train into partnership.

If an idea passes all five of these questions, odds are the rest will fall into place. Yes, you’ll want to eventually talk about where it will happen, what training or technology the mission team will need, and what it will cost (in terms of changes to people’s comfort zones, then property or financial cost). Ultimately, money is the last issue – although in many declining churches it’s the first.

This short process will ensure quality ministry that has a far better chance at impacting people’s lives, making positive change in your church’s world, and ultimately revealing the Kingdom of God.

Church Ain’t What it Used to Be

December 9, 2008 Jeremiah Leave a comment

I’ve become veritably smitten with the “organic church” model Frank Viola promotes, because it sounds exactly like the churches of the New Testament.

If you don’t know what I mean, and don’t have time for books like Pagan Christianity or Reimagining Church, check out the short PDF Finding Organic Church. It makes a decent primer, and more importantly gives tips on how to start looking for an organic church (without moving to a new city).

Surrender

December 2, 2008 Jeremiah Leave a comment

The gospel doesn’t really make sense until we give up. Our efforts, thoughts, plans, and actions are all ultimately futile.

I have a really hard time with this, as I’m sure others do. I’ve been in control of my life for more or less all of it, and – at the time – thought I was doing pretty well. These days it’s really sinking in that I can’t do all the worthwhile things I want to do for my God until I surrender.

The gospel says Jesus reconciles us to God as adopted children, and Jesus sends his Spirit to cleanse and guide us. It’s a striking picture of love to me, to be adopted. As children our place is one of growth and learning, learning from and obeying our Father who loves us. It’s hard to swallow that level of humility.

Maybe that’s why Jesus called God Abba - effectively “Daddy” – to show us how childlike we need to be.

What’s It About Again?

November 19, 2008 Jeremiah Leave a comment

It’s about the gospel, right? So what’s that? Seriously, tell me.

The point is, it’s good to back up once in a while and reiterate the point. It’s easy to lose sight of the fundamentals, so take a minute and make the gospel make sense. I’ll write my answer later.

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The “F” Word

November 18, 2008 Jeremiah 1 comment

Fellowship is a dirty word. It’s dirty because churches have abused it. It’s robbed of all meaning, like saying you feel “fine” or that something is “cool.” It’s come to mean a kind of non-threatening friendliness, which of course describes most American churches. No surprise, most of these lack meaning, too.

Consider another modern use of “fellowship” in The Fellowship of the Ring. The fellowship of Middle-Earth is defined by mission. The relationship is built on supporting one another to accomplish a task. This, I believe, is the proper meaning of fellowship. To say the Fellowship of the Ring were friends is practically an insult to the depth and quality of their relationship.

The Lost Art of Mentoring

November 12, 2008 Jeremiah 1 comment

The New Testament is rife with personal mentoring relationships. Jesus lived with the Twelve – eating, sleeping and traveling together. There are several examples where he retreats from the crowds to intentionally spend time with the Twelve building them up and revealing secrets. Later we see Paul make the same habits, especially with disciples like Luke, Silas, Timothy, Lydia and Philemon. He takes them under his wing as apprentices, personally nurturing their leadership by using his life as an example.

The modern church has abandoned mentoring in favor of education. Dedicated Christians are brimming over with knowledge but no significant lifestyle change occurs. Mentoring was the biblical model to forge an entire Christian life, grown from the example of a credible mentor.

In a recent post, Tom Bandy illustrates the mentoring experience. It consists of five major parts:

  • Sharing - Mentors and apprentices share mutually their experiences, temptations, struggles, victories and concerns.
  • Habits - Mentors pass on their habits which guard their discipline against temptation, and help apprentices shape habits unique to their needs.
  • Accountability - Mentors and apprentices hold each other accountable to their habits and disciplines.
  • Action - Mentors encourage apprentices to engage mission through their gifts and calling, reaching out to needy people.
  • Acceptance - Finally mentors teach apprentices how to persevere despite failure and shortcoming, because ultimately we are all still broken people, but cannot let our weakness discourage or diminish our strength in Christ.